tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post5679800923891692010..comments2024-03-28T22:10:59.521+00:00Comments on Cotswold Crafter: Stressful Day!Sandrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-17625295246738434832015-01-24T00:27:09.947+00:002015-01-24T00:27:09.947+00:00I'm fuming just now after reading what have ha...I'm fuming just now after reading what have happened to you and you family.<br />How dare they do this to you?? We don't know each other but I know in my guts that you and Paul are lovely parents !! I agree with everyone who have comment today (well it is a few minutes left) so I'm not going to repeat but Yes this need to be investigated so I hope by Monday you are rested and ready for some talks ! Doe's Lucy herself know why this happened,bless her.<br /> Thanks for the inform about the car,they are going out on Sunday to have a look... New Sissix big shot coming out, don't think I like it. <br />You and your family try to have a nice weekend now after all and I'm sending you a lot of cyber bear Hugs Maria xxMariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05672255244916708700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-62056296290779678522015-01-23T23:50:56.305+00:002015-01-23T23:50:56.305+00:00good night to the bestest friend ever!
love you lo...good night to the bestest friend ever!<br />love you lots,<br />you have made me smile xxxx<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-12168383613567116132015-01-23T23:49:30.170+00:002015-01-23T23:49:30.170+00:00Hi Norah,
Thank you so much for your amazing comme...Hi Norah,<br />Thank you so much for your amazing comments, they are so kind,<br />I think that maybe some of the teachers would be better spending their time worrying about students that are really think are really in need of their help! <br />Many thanks for popping over today, I am so grateful for your love and support!<br />Crafty hugs,<br />Sandra xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-41503521770754550022015-01-23T23:43:36.163+00:002015-01-23T23:43:36.163+00:00Hi Sam,
Thank you for your kind caring comments to...Hi Sam,<br />Thank you for your kind caring comments today, it is very kind of you to think of me today, it means a lot that I have such fabulous friends!<br />Sending hugs your way<br />crafty Hugs<br />Sandra <br />xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-72138443747922520692015-01-23T23:39:12.330+00:002015-01-23T23:39:12.330+00:00Hi Hazel,
I think that you are the best nanny goin...Hi Hazel,<br />I think that you are the best nanny going as you clearly know your grandchildren better than most! and how to entertainment<br />My son had similar symptoms to Calum, he had an amazing imagination, from which he told the most amazing stories, he was a very quiet lad too.<br />Crafty hugs,<br />Sandra xxxx<br />Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-88163304729551765552015-01-23T23:31:40.483+00:002015-01-23T23:31:40.483+00:00oh you started my blubbering again, I feel so emot...oh you started my blubbering again, I feel so emotionally drained, empty, dumb struck!<br />I hate the thought that all the teachers can answer what information they like! what happened to the good old days! <br />You are such a supportive friend my lovely and I will be forever grateful for it!<br />Huge Hugs<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-58059219285971858482015-01-23T23:27:28.146+00:002015-01-23T23:27:28.146+00:00Hi Sue,
thank you for stopping by today despite no...Hi Sue,<br />thank you for stopping by today despite not feeling 100%,<br />your lovely comments and thoughts have kept me going today, I think before I would have crawled back under the duvet and stayed there! <br />I think that there has been several breech's of confidence here the school and hospital have some explaining to do!<br />Thank you so much for stopping by and brightening my day!<br />hugs<br />Sandra xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-26238591048681450352015-01-23T23:23:54.929+00:002015-01-23T23:23:54.929+00:00After all of the comments today, which I hope you ...After all of the comments today, which I hope you have taken some comfort from, I so want you to end the day on a happier note because we are not going to let THEM dominate every single second of today. I am saying to you the words we always used to say to our lot (and still do to Gem sometimes.... just because!)<br /> "Don't let the bedbugs bite , and if they do use dynomite" Sleep tight my lovely xxMrs Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16179962719631818018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-70770336786044337752015-01-23T23:22:47.082+00:002015-01-23T23:22:47.082+00:00Hi Steph,
Thank you for your kind words and amazin...Hi Steph,<br />Thank you for your kind words and amazing support, I wasn't expecting anyone to bother posting to day as I hadn't made a card, so it was such a wonderful surprise to see all of these amazingly kind, caring comments.<br />You have lifted my mood from the ground today.<br />I will take up my grievance with the school on Monday, I couldn't do it today as I was reeling from yesterday!<br />Back to card tomorrow!<br />love and hugs<br />Sandra xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-9974117331334751932015-01-23T23:18:06.304+00:002015-01-23T23:18:06.304+00:00Hi Maureen,
Thank you for your kind, supportive co...Hi Maureen,<br />Thank you for your kind, supportive comment, this has knocked me for 6 as they say, had I been aware of the problem I would have taken Lucy myself, but I wasn't aware, so couldn't!<br />The lovely comments from you ladies has lifted my mood and put a bit of fire in my belly! I will not let this go by without an explanation!<br />Thanks again my lovely, there wil be a card tomorrow, I promise!<br />hugs my lovely,<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-2835436756889529062015-01-23T23:13:28.278+00:002015-01-23T23:13:28.278+00:00Hi Myra,
Thanks for your kind words and support, y...Hi Myra,<br />Thanks for your kind words and support, you have lifted my mood.<br />You know years ago we lived next to these people that used to neglect their children terribly, she would just through them a bag of bread and lunch time, the baby was left all day in car seat with I terry cloth nappy tied around its neck to keep its bottle its mouth, one day the father hit the little girls so hard he knocked her across the garden, she was four years old. now both me and the neighbour on the other side went to NSPCC for help, they came out we were interviewed and so were they, the mother knocked on my door and called me all the names you can imagine and her words were "we know the routine, we take her to hospital where she will be checked over, we have a good excuse for every bruise she has" and do you know they never did anything for those children, they claimed that wherever possible the strived to keep the children in their homes!<br />what is the point! <br />My children aren't neglected and the school make phone calls and the Eye clinic pull appointments from thin air!<br />so this has been a tough few days believe me.<br />I couldn't have got through the support of you lovely ladies though!<br />Huge Hugs<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-21474291468579123882015-01-23T23:04:23.990+00:002015-01-23T23:04:23.990+00:00Hi Pat,
Thank you for your love and support, it me...Hi Pat,<br />Thank you for your love and support, it means so much, make sure you rest that hip.<br />Gentle Hugs &<br />Love<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-32249084231516337702015-01-23T23:02:43.931+00:002015-01-23T23:02:43.931+00:00Hi Mumma,
I could have just done with that hug bel...Hi Mumma,<br />I could have just done with that hug believe me, why are you so far away! lol<br />I have been absolutely blown away by the level of kindness and support today, It has made me feel so much better about the situation, you know that feeling where you end up convincing yourself that 'they' must be right, I have failed her! But then I read all of these lovey comments and listen to Paul who like all of you has said that we couldn't have done anymore!<br />Anyway I will be glad when this day is over!<br />Sounds like you and Ciara have had a lovely day together, despite her being under the weather. I bet you will be tired tonight though.<br />Sleep Well<br />Hugs<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-58321014137826958632015-01-23T22:56:21.821+00:002015-01-23T22:56:21.821+00:00Oh Littlelamb,
Thank you so much for your supporti...Oh Littlelamb,<br />Thank you so much for your supporting comment, I thought that nobody would bother commenting today as there was no card, so to have all of this support has blown me away!<br />Back to a card to show tomorrow,<br />Hugs<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-34848360080546424402015-01-23T22:54:25.006+00:002015-01-23T22:54:25.006+00:00Hello Tina, Thank you so much for your kind words ...Hello Tina, Thank you so much for your kind words and for your support today, I think that without you lovely bunch of friends, I would have just had a breakdown, I kind of just feel sad and a little empty, I am waiting for the anger to kick in!<br />I have a card made for tomorrow so normal business resumes!<br />Big Hugs<br />Sandra xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-19231586679359497292015-01-23T22:51:19.125+00:002015-01-23T22:51:19.125+00:00Hi Saba, Welcome to my blog sweetheart, Its not no...Hi Saba, Welcome to my blog sweetheart, Its not normally like this honestly, I have had a stressful couple of days, resulting in a bit of a meltdown last night, but the kind words and support I have received on here today has blown me away! how lucky I am to be amongst such kind, caring, genuine people!<br />There will be a card tomorrow I promise.<br />I do hope that you will join us regularly, for some crafting and plenty of chatting and helpful advice!<br />Huge Hugs<br />Sandra xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-10705274406340964062015-01-23T22:47:09.223+00:002015-01-23T22:47:09.223+00:00aww thank you Myra, how thoughtful of you to come ...aww thank you Myra, how thoughtful of you to come back on, you ladies have made me feel a lot better about the situation today, I could never thank you enough.<br />Huge Hugs,<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-7223623334499242552015-01-23T22:45:25.930+00:002015-01-23T22:45:25.930+00:00Thank you so much for your reassurance, I have jus...Thank you so much for your reassurance, I have just been sat, dumb struck really, I still can't believe it, the fact that we had to take her to an appointment the school have made through their apparent concern, what must the hospital have thought, mind you they know that lucy was signed off from them anyway (as her treatment had finished)!<br />I wouldn't mind so much but when we needed lucy to be seen urgently last year we waited 2 month for an appointment! they call and get one next day!<br />Sorry to rant!<br />grateful hugs<br />Sandra xxxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-23723874863948844492015-01-23T22:38:41.264+00:002015-01-23T22:38:41.264+00:00oh Lynda, your sweet comment made me cry, thank yo...oh Lynda, your sweet comment made me cry, thank you so much for caring it means the world,<br /> love & hugs<br />Sandra xxxxSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04200010622107370353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-19014209453940809622015-01-23T22:25:14.341+00:002015-01-23T22:25:14.341+00:00Hi my lovely,sorry for late comment.
I'm in to...Hi my lovely,sorry for late comment.<br />I'm in total shock at what's happened with the Lucy's school going over your head they know your home 24/7 so why on earth did they not call you first when Lucy said she couldn't see properly. I agree with all the comments Sandra it's appalling that they have gone over your head in this way &Contacted the opticians & consultant how dare they give out patients information without your consent surly that is against the law. I phoned the doctor for blood test results for Terry & they wouldn't give them to me said he would have to ring up himself to make an appointment for the doctor,so how have they got away with doing this. Go make complaints starting with the school first then optician & consultant don't let this go my lovely get full apologies in person from all conserned.<br />Please don't apologies for not posting a card this is much more important sweethart. You & Paul are brilliant caring parents too all you gorgeous children.<br />Try & get a good night's sleep you have done nothing wrong Sandra,try not to make yourself I'll. <br />Good night God bless my lovely friend. Love & Hug's Lynda xxxxx<br />Lynda's craft'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01532280747477027294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-91977406707703357402015-01-23T21:05:00.742+00:002015-01-23T21:05:00.742+00:00Hi Sandra, can't believe the numbers of breach...Hi Sandra, can't believe the numbers of breaches of confidentiality that have gone on. Why not a simple phone call by a teacher to you to discuss any concerns which you could have addressed yourself as you felt necessary? Teachers can only act in "loco parentis" in emergency situations whilst parents are being located certainly not the case here. I would be fuming too! I like you take full responsibility for my little girl having given up a good management position in order to be able to take her o school, pick her up, attend all school events and taxi to all her activities. Shame schools aren't concerned about children who don have the support isn't it? Do not doubt that you are an excellent parent and watch people squirm when you start to question issues such as onfidentiality. <br /><br /><br />Sleep well and try not to let it wind you up xxxbarbiepinkfairyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16697488105735813168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-88742292954531166192015-01-23T20:32:12.184+00:002015-01-23T20:32:12.184+00:00Hi Sandra,
I just wanted to say night night and h...Hi Sandra, <br />I just wanted to say night night and hope you sleep well! You have done nothing wrong - so I do hope you will have a good nights rest and not feel too tired out in the morning.<br />God Bless, Sandra,<br />Love Myra xxxxxxMyrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14667747125575972770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-8342731946393940692015-01-23T20:22:54.053+00:002015-01-23T20:22:54.053+00:00Hi Sandra, this is my first post to you. I have be...Hi Sandra, this is my first post to you. I have been looking at your blog for a few weeks now, I found it through Sue's wonderful blog. Your cards are amazing. You are a very talented lady and the cards you share are truly works of art. I have been meaning to leave you a comment before, but your post today has made up my mind to do it.<br />I am appalled at what has been done to you. <br />The optician has to my mind broken the law in disclosing confidential material or at the very least has broken the code of conduct which I am certain opticians must abide by. The Consultant, who I am sure had Lucy's best interest at heart, may not have been aware that you had not been involved in what was happening. However, he was negligent in not checking first.<br />What really infuriates me though is the totally irresponsible actions of the school nurse and the SEN. How dare they instigate this course of action without first speaking to you and ascertaining all the facts. Nurses do have a very strict code of conduct and I would be very tempted to report this to a higher level. However, what ever you and Paul decide to do about it one thing you must remember is that is is BECAUSE you are wonderful caring parents that this has upset you so much, if you weren't you wouldn't be bothered. It's been apparent to me thought your postings what a lovely caring mother you are and my heart goes out to you.<br />Loving hugs<br />SabaTooth Fairy Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05102182308435269314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-3043555785514992812015-01-23T18:01:50.655+00:002015-01-23T18:01:50.655+00:00Sorry Sandra, me again.
I did contact Steph to se...Sorry Sandra, me again.<br /><br />I did contact Steph to see if was ok to pass on her email, but she said it was all sorted. XTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00247293237576060706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956760013891051450.post-78307778911521414542015-01-23T17:59:55.539+00:002015-01-23T17:59:55.539+00:00Hi Sandra
Can I firstly say I hope your dad will ...Hi Sandra<br /><br />Can I firstly say I hope your dad will be OK Sandra.<br /><br />Regarding your little girl, isn't she still classed as a minor so no information should have been passed between the school and the hospital without contacting you first. Even if they thought that she wasn't getting the back up from her family, which is so not the case with you and your husband. It sounds that you were both on the ball with Lucy's needs, they had no rights to go over your head. Knowing Lucy's age if she had said she was having problems it would have been common decency from the school to make an appointment to talk things over with you and Lucy first and not go over your head. I'm angry for you. I think you need to go kick someones butt. We'll all hold them down for you.<br /><br />Hugs<br /><br />Tina XXTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00247293237576060706noreply@blogger.com